I agree with all you wrote, Asus Butterfly. I've asked myself these questions over and over again. Society has unfortunately taught us to be more lenient, more forgiving and more amenable to men's mistakes, transgressions and abuses. With women, it's simply been, "B*tch, you should know better," now shut up or get out." Sadly, we women do this to other women. I love your article. Thank you for shining the spotlight on this.